Discover new ways to live fully alongside a community of like-minded mature men.

Mature Eros

This retreat offers gay men a thoughtful space to explore positive aging, with a special focus on how sexuality evolves over time. It creates room for honest reflection on what it means to grow older with openness, confidence, and self-awareness.

Set in a warm and supportive environment, participants are invited to reflect on the gifts of elderhood and strengthen their capacity for a life rich in meaning and social connection. The experience includes meaningful conversations, skilled touch, and the chance to spend a week in paradise.

"Life as an older man can be challenging, but when has life not had its challenges? I've come to embrace the possibility and freedom in this phase of life, and I see how sex and sexuality will always be an important part of the life I want to live."

What's Included

Accommodations: Purposefully designed beachfront eco-friendly rooms with ocean views, plus access to the 25-meter pool.

Meals: Three farm-to-table meals each day, prepared with homegrown organic ingredients, along with snacks and additional nourishment to keep you satisfied and energized throughout the week.

Transportation: Airport transfer from Puerto Jimenez to Blue Osa and return taxes.

Also Included: The week features both large-group and small-group experiences. Some activities are centered on building touch skills, and midway through the week there is an opportunity to explore the beauty of Costa Rica through optional tours.

About Your Instructor

John R. Ballew, M.S. is a licensed professional counselor in private practice in Atlanta. His work focuses on relationships, intimacy, sexuality, anxiety, depression, and work-life balance. He has taught with The Body Electric School for more than 20 years.

Both professionally and personally, he is especially interested in what it means to live a good and meaningful life, particularly in midlife and beyond.

Men's retreats in Punto Jimenez