




Deep Refuge: A LGBTQIA+ Community Retreat in Nature
July 19 - 25, 2026
With Victoria Cary and René Rivera
This retreat offers a sliding-scale pricing model along with a range of housing options, making it as accessible as possible for participants. All accommodations are single occupancy, and pricing includes meals. Please review the options below to find the best fit for your needs.
Casita Benefactor Rate (I am resourced and can help another)
This rate covers the full retreat cost while also helping support others who need financial assistance to attend. The difference between this rate and the actual rate is tax-deductible. Your generosity helps expand access to practice at Vallecitos.
Casita Actual Rate (I can cover myself)
This option reflects the actual cost of the retreat. Accommodations are single occupancy, and the price includes lodging and meals.
Casita Scholarship Rate (A lower rate would help me attend)
This rate provides a 35% scholarship off the actual retreat cost. Accommodations are single occupancy, and the price includes lodging and meals. If you need additional scholarship support beyond this rate, choose this housing option, complete your registration, and then submit the scholarship application link provided afterward.
Yurt Benefactor Rate (I am resourced and can help another)
This rate covers retreat costs and helps support others who require financial assistance to attend. The difference between this rate and the actual rate is tax-deductible. Thank you for supporting access to practice at Vallecitos.
Yurt Actual Rate (I can cover myself)
This rate covers the actual cost of the retreat. Accommodations are single occupancy, and the price includes lodging and meals.
Yurt Scholarship Rate (A lower rate would help me attend)
This option offers a 35% scholarship off the actual retreat cost. Accommodations are single occupancy, and the price includes lodging and meals. If you need additional scholarship help beyond this rate, select this housing option, complete registration, and then submit the additional scholarship application following the instructions provided after registering.
Tent Cabin Benefactor Rate (I am resourced and can help another)
This rate covers retreat costs and supports participants who need financial assistance to attend. The difference between this rate and the actual rate is tax-deductible. Thank you for helping sustain access to retreat practice at Vallecitos.
Tent Cabin Actual Rate (I can cover myself)
This option reflects the actual cost of the retreat. Accommodations are single occupancy, and the price includes lodging and meals.
Tent Cabin Scholarship Rate (A lower rate would help me attend)
This rate offers a 35% scholarship off the actual retreat cost. Accommodations are single occupancy, and the price includes lodging and meals. If you need more scholarship support than this rate provides, choose this housing option, complete registration, and then submit an additional scholarship application using the instructions provided after registering.
Hermitage - Supporting scholarships and land stewardship
This option helps support land stewardship efforts while also expanding access for retreatants who need additional financial support. The difference between this rate and the actual hermitage rate is tax-deductible. Thank you for contributing to the care of Vallecitos.
The Hermitage is a secluded cabin with views of mountains, meadows, and the Vallecitos River, offering a more private retreat experience. This octagonal cabin includes a queen-size bed, nightstand, desk, chair, shelves, sink, and counter. A private outhouse is located nearby. It is a single occupancy heated space, and the price includes meals and lodging.
Hermitage - Supporting scholarships
This option helps support access for retreatants who need additional financial support to attend. The difference between this rate and the actual hermitage rate is tax-deductible. Thank you for helping sustain Vallecitos.
The Hermitage is a secluded cabin with views of mountains, meadows, and the Vallecitos River, offering a more private retreat experience. This octagonal cabin includes a queen-size bed, nightstand, desk, chair, shelves, sink, and counter. A private outhouse is located nearby. It is a single occupancy heated space, and the price includes meals and lodging.
Hermitage - A secluded cabin
A secluded cabin overlooking mountains, meadows, and the Vallecitos River, the Hermitage offers an ideal setting for a more private retreat experience.
Tent Camping
This is the most economical option and is intended only for experienced campers. You must bring your own tent and camping gear, as Vallecitos does not provide a tent. Weather conditions can vary widely, precipitation should be expected, and guests must be fully self-sufficient. This option is strongly discouraged for anyone new to Vallecitos. As with all Vallecitos housing, tent camping is single occupancy only; tents and camping spaces may not be shared. Pricing includes meals.
Comfort Pack--includes bedding and towels
Round Trip Shuttle--see website for more details
One Way Shuttle--see website for more details
Cancellation Policy: 45+ days = full refund, less nonrefundable $150 fee; 45-22 days = 50% refund; 0-21 days = no refunds. This policy applies to all registered guests, including scholarship recipients. For more detail visit our website here.

The tent cabins at Vallecitos offer a simple, yet comfortable, low-cost accommodation. The tent cabins are on wooden platforms with canvas walls. Each has a bed, a small table and chair. There are zipper windows in the tent cabins and the front opening can be spread wide to invite in sunlight. All tent cabins have a small propane heater. Tent cabins are single occupancy, stand-alone structures. Please note that tent cabins tend to be colder in the shoulder seasons (May and September/October).

An economical option intended only for experienced campers. You are required to bring your own tent camping gear, as Vallecitos does NOT supply a tent. Temperatures are highly variable, precipitation is to be expected, and you are expected to be fully self-sufficient. This option is strongly discouraged for anyone new to Vallecitos. Please note that our tent camping spaces, like all Vallecitos housing options, are single occupancy. You may not share a tent or camping space with other retreat participants. Pricing includes meals.

This option covers retreat costs and helps support others who require financial assistance to attend. The difference between this rate and the actual rate is tax-deductible. We greatly appreciate your help in supporting access to practice on retreat at Vallecitos. All accommodations are single occupancy. The price includes accommodation and meals.

This rate covers the actual costs of the retreat. All accommodations are single occupancy. The price includes accommodation and meals.

This option is a 35% scholarship of the actual costs of the retreat. All accommodations are single occupancy. The price includes accommodation and meals. If you require additional scholarship assistance above this rate, please select this housing option. Complete your registration, and then submit an additional scholarship application (directions are provided after registering).

A secluded cabin overlooking mountains, meadows and the Vallecitos River, the Hermitage is the perfect setting for a more private retreat experience. The octagonal cabin is furnished with a queen size bed, night stand, desk, chair, shelves, sink, and counter. A private outhouse for the hermitage is nearby. The hermitage is a single occupancy heated space. The price includes meals and lodging.

About Victoria Cary Victoria Cary has been devoted to Insight Meditation and the study of the Dharma since 2006. In 2017, she completed Spirit Rock’s Community Dharma Leader program and became a fully empowered Dharma Teacher. A native of the San Francisco Bay Area, she co-founded the San Francisco People of Color Insight Sangha in 2016 and remains one of its...
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